• Your Back Garden

    Your home turf is a great place to experiment. “The beauty of the back garden is that it offers all the sensory benefits of an outdoor experience while still giving you a little privacy, especially if you get behind a hedge or fence,” says sexologist Ava Cadell, author of Stock Market Orgasm…Continue Reading

  • On the Beach

    Seaside lovin’ can be very intoxicating. “Sex on the beach is exciting because we associate the shore with spontaneity and holidays,” Gardos says.

    “Breathing in the salty air and hearing the waves crashing can be very seductive.” Scope out a secluded piece of shoreline shie…Continue Reading

  • In the Water

    Getting wet can be pretty wild (Think dam, pool, outdoor shower). “Being immersed in water, or standing in a stream of it, feels pleasurable, since your skin can become more sensitive to touch when wet,” Gardos says. But water can wash away your own lubrication, so use a silicone-based lube. Continue Reading

  • In a Small Boat

    Think about it: what’s more intimate than having sex in the middle of a large stretch of water out in the middle of nowhere? “Being in a boat can feel like the two of you are stranded on a secluded island, which is a fantasy for a lot of people,” says sex coach Patti Britton, author of The…Continue Reading

  • In the Forest

    Next time you’re hiking or mountain biking with your guy, stop and work up a different kind of sweat.

    “There’s something incredibly raw and primal about having sex in nature – and this can evoke your sense of adventure,” Gardos says.

    Prime Position: …Continue Reading

  • Your Back Garden

    Your home turf is a great place to experiment. “The beauty of the back garden is that it offers all the sensory benefits of an outdoor experience while still giving you a little privacy, especially if you get behind a hedge or fence,” says sexologist Ava Cadell, author of Stock Market Orgasm.

    Prime Position: Reverse Cowgirl

    Have him sit on a lounge or lawn chair with his legs outstretched, then straddle him so you’re facing his feet. Place your hands on his thighs and plant your feet on the ground on either side of the chair. Then move up and down to stimulate the sensitive nerves at the opening of your vagina.

    Another option: have him recline so he’s lying down, which allows for even deeper penetration.

    On the Beach

    Seaside lovin’ can be very intoxicating. “Sex on the beach is exciting because we associate the shore with spontaneity and holidays,” Gardos says.

    “Breathing in the salty air and hearing the waves crashing can be very seductive.” Scope out a secluded piece of shoreline shielded by rocks, and spread out a towel or blanket – you don’t want sand in your nooks and crannies.

    Prime Position: Girl on Top

    Straddle him and dig your knees slightly into the blanket-covered sand (this allows for deeper penetration and better traction). Rather than move up and down, stay close together and rub your clitoris against his pubic bone. When you sense that he’s on the brink of climax, switch to a figure-eight motion, which will help delay his finish and stimulate a different set of nerve endings inside you.

    In the Water

    Getting wet can be pretty wild (Think dam, pool, outdoor shower). “Being immersed in water, or standing in a stream of it, feels pleasurable, since your skin can become more sensitive to touch when wet,” Gardos says. But water can wash away your own lubrication, so use a silicone-based lube.

    Prime Position: Standing Up

    Wrap your legs around his waist (if you’re in the shower, have him lean you up against the wall for support) and push your swimsuit bottom to the side for easy access. Then throw your arms around his neck while he grabs your butt to control the pace.

    In a Small Boat

    Think about it: what’s more intimate than having sex in the middle of a large stretch of water out in the middle of nowhere? “Being in a boat can feel like the two of you are stranded on a secluded island, which is a fantasy for a lot of people,” says sex coach Patti Britton, author of The Art of Sex Coaching.

    Prime Position: Spooning

    Lie on your back while he lies on his side facing you. Put your leg (the one closest to him) across his thighs and turn so your butt faces him while he enters you from behind. Move slowly and rhythmically together so you don’t rock the boat.

    In the Forest

    Next time you’re hiking or mountain biking with your guy, stop and work up a different kind of sweat.

    “There’s something incredibly raw and primal about having sex in nature – and this can evoke your sense of adventure,” Gardos says.

    Prime Position: Doggy Style

    Lean on a big rock or a tree for support while he enters you from behind. His hands can stroke your other hot spots, and you can arch your back for deeper penetration.

    Want to be more daring? To tackle your sexual fantasies read this article on How to Make Your Fantasies Reality.

    Take Your Bedroom Outdoors

    Posted on: by Thamar Houliston

    Like margaritas, sex can be even better when experienced al fresco. “Having sex outside awakens the senses,” says sex therapist Sandor Gardos. “Feeling the breeze on your skin, smelling the freshly cut grass – stimuli are very erotic.” Plus, the fear of getting caught can add a thrill. To inspire you, we’ve come up with prime outdoor spots for getting busy, plus advice on the best positions in each.

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    • wishicould

      this move is impossible, my missus looks like a blimp!!! even with muscles like arni swartzenegger i’d have a problem!!

    • Anonymous

      My boyfriend and i were at the beach this weekend & went for a walk on the beach at about 6pm so was getting dark. We found a nice big dry tree truck & with no one else on the beach & knowing no one can hear or see us i pulled my skirt up & straddled him!it was so exciting moaning loudly as i climaxed!it was just the perfect setting!

    • Anonymous

      OMG! Lat night my boyfriend and i were walking back from a party along the beach. Then he pushed me up against a tree and kissed me, we stripped quickly and started doing it. We were both moanning so loudly, i am surprised we weren’t busted.

    • shelly

      Hubby and i tried the beach sex. Excellent but try not to get any sand in your “sensitve areas” lol

    • Peachpie

      Me and my boyfriend ahve done it quite a few times outdoors. ON CAMPUS!! OMG i still think back to those moments and wonder how we could have not been busted but its so exhilirating, would do it over and over…

    • Anonymous

      Doing it outdoors is fun. A nice place is at your local botanical garden, easy to find a secret spot. Had the best sex at Kirstenbosch Botanical Gardens