Did you know that novelty ignites passion by increasing your brain’s levels of dopamine, a neurotransmitter linked to romance and sex drive? So says biological anthropologist Dr Helen Fisher.
Whether you’re both working from home and a little bored of each other or you’re just looking to add some extra zing, these crazy sex positions are just the right amount of “oh wow” without being “ouch!” Remember, though, while positions, like the Butter Churner (below), qualify as novel, “you don’t need to go to such extremes to sustain romance. Anything that’s new and different will do the trick,” says Fisher.
Before you jump into these moves, try this trick to relax and warm up. During a massage, have him straddle your bottom and massage your back. While he’s busy with his hands, wiggle, grind and move your mons pubis in a circular motion against the sheets to stimulate your clitoris. You’ll quickly forget about anything other than getting it on.
Ready? Get stuck into the below.
Four Crazy Sex Positions To Try Tonight:
Benefits: You can still maintain eye contact while viewing the action at centre stage.
Both of you are seated on the bed with legs towards one another, arms back to support yourselves. Now move together, you onto his penis. Your hips will be between his spread legs, your knees bent and feet outside of his hips and flat on the bed. Now rock back and forth. If you want to take it a step further, grab his hands and pull yourself up into a squatting position while he lies back.
The Snow Angel
Benefits: You get a prime view of his derrière.
This is challenging: lie on your back and have him straddle you facing away. Lift your legs and wrap them around his back to elevate your vagina so he can enter you. Grab his butt to help him slide up and back. Add a little massage action to your grip. If you’re feeling extra adventurous, you can have him spin around into missionary style to face you while trying to stay inserted. Then switch positions, this time with you on top and facing away.
Benefits: It’s a kilojoule burner because it’s so athletic. You could even stroll around the house in this position, but remember to close the curtains first.
Standing with your back to your partner, place your hands on the floor (you can bend your knees, if you need to) and get your guy to enter you from behind. Now, and here’s the tricky part, he can lift up your pelvis so that you can wrap your legs around his waist. Wheelbarrow races were never this much fun! Rhythmically squeeze your pelvic-floor muscles to help you climax. Remember to take your time and make sure you’re comfortable throughout the fun, otherwise it won’t be, erm, fun.
The Butter Churner
Benefits: An extra rush of blood to your head will increase your ecstasy.
Lie on your back with your legs raised over your head. This is not a plain Jane position! Your guy then squats over you and can dip his penis in and out of you. Make sure he is extra careful to thrust lightly to avoid stressing your neck. If he removes himself fully each time, you’ll experience the extremely pleasurable feeling of him entering you over and over again.
Make things even more interesting with this warming lube – perfect for sensitive skin. Plus, the cinnamomum zeylancium bark adds stimulation.
Excerpted from the Women’s Health Big Book Of Os