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Oral sex reinvented…
Lying on your back is the most surefire way to get off from oral sex, say most experts. But if you’ve got time to explore, test out something saucier.
1. Fully Clothed
Pose: Just hike up your skirt or dress (sorry, this won’t work with pants) and sit on the edge of something while he kneels between your legs. No need to pull down your undies – just push them aside so he can get to work. The immediacy and spontaneity of it will feel super-sexy.
Perk: You can take it out of the bedroom to the couch, a kitchen chair, his home office… anywhere with a seat. Also, this position may be easier on his neck than your lying on your back, which can help him go longer, explains Dr Amy Cooper, author of The Everything Orgasm Book.
2. Sideways 69
Pose: Instead of doing the more traditional (and honestly, more clumsy) version – where one of you lies on top of the other – lie on your sides. It’s a lot more comfortable and gives him better access.
Perk: It’s bad… in a good way. The hottest thing about this move is that it feels down and dirty, says sex therapist Lori Hollander.
3. Standing Up
Pose: Have him lie across a bench on his back while you stand over him.
Perk: You’ll have an amazing view of his body – it will be pretty obvious how much he’s enjoying himself. If you feel like being generous, you can lean forward and use your hands to tease him a bit too.
4. You On Top
Pose: While he lies on the bed, straddle his face and kneel, placing your privates where they need to be. Don’t stare at the ceiling – look directly at him. Ain’t no turn-on like eye contact when he’s going to town.
Perk: He still does most of the work, but you get to take the reins a bit by tilting your pelvis and moving closer or further away for optimal orgasm pressure.