Everything changed when you saw the two pink lines show up on that pregnancy test—but here you are in the confusing space after a miscarriage with a thousand thoughts swirling around your brain: How soon can I try again? What if this happens again? And, let’s be honest: What does this mean for my sex life? First, know that whatever you’re feeling is completely okay. “Women can have such different reactions to a miscarriage,” says Dr. Catherine Monk, professor of medical psychology at Columbia University Medical Center. “I hope that women and their partners understand that the range of feelings are normal.”